We have all heard the adage that “time waits for no man’ and the idea that “the clock is ticking.” It got me to thinking about how much weight we place on the idea of time, this invisible taskmaster, created by our own minds in collaboration with the sun and moon. We have allowed it to dictate how we move through life, from how our days are designed to when big experiences should take place, such as weddings. Sometimes we even judge our worth by it, since we all know as we age beauty fades. We often feel pressed for time and worry that “time is passing us by.”
We spend ample amounts of time worrying about time!
We all know that “time will tell,” because we assume it is wise and all knowing. Somehow, we believe our future selves will have learned more, the more time we are given to paddle around in our tragedies and triumphs. Because it is so wise, we desire and fear the passage of it. We get wrapped around and all tangled up in it, rather than utilizing it for what it is; a way to categorize and structure our experience. Continue reading